"You've told me calm people leave you a bit restless. I'd like you to meet Maya — she's easy to be around, no pressure to perform. Let's see if calm can actually feel good rather than dull."
Let a quiet moment just sit
Sometime during the evening with Maya, let a little silence sit for a few seconds without rushing to fill it. Notice how it feels. Chances are she'll be right there with you — and you'll see that quiet doesn't mean something's wrong.
Maya Lin
Architectural Designer · 31
About them:
Maya works in restoration and design. She's thoughtful and present, not big on fast back-and-forth texting, and much prefers a real conversation in person.
Why I picked them for you:
She's steady and easy to be around, so there's no pressure to keep things buzzing. That makes her a lovely person to just relax and be honest with.