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The honest comparison

How we compare

Pick an app, then the exact plan you'd pay for. Everything below — the price, why the Friend tier wins, and when that plan is the better choice — is written for that specific plan, not the app in general.

Tinder
$39.99 /mo
    Friend of a Friend — Friend tier
    $59 /mo
    A real person does the work.
    + $149 one-time — your setup, profile & vetting
    • A matchmaker hand-picks your match
    • Every match is background-checked
    • Character-first — their photo unlocks once your date is set, so you never walk in blind
    • Near-zero time from you
    • Billing pauses when you're happy
    From the branches to the roots
    ↑ APPS · YOU DO THE WORK Friend of a Friend the roots — a human does the work Tinder Gold

    Why Friend wins

    is the better choice if…

    What Friend gives you no matter which app or plan you compare
    A human, not an algorithmBackground-checked matches Character before photosZero swiping Serious, local intentSomeone in your corner

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    What you get as you move up

    Everything above compared our entry plan, Friend. The more you'd rather we simply handle for you, the higher you go — here's exactly what each step adds, and why it costs more.

    Friend
    $59 /mo
    + $149 one-time · ~$850 first year
    A real matchmaker on your side, at an entry price — the plan compared above.
    Includes
    • A profile you shape anytime
    • Hand-picked introductions
    • Every match background-checked
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    Close Friends
    $99 /mo
    + $349 one-time · ~$1,540 first year
    We step in and run it: a real sit-down, priority curation, and we coordinate the dates.
    Everything in Friend, plus
    • A one-on-one consultation
    • We plan and book your dates
    • More than one match a month
    • Priority access to your matchmaker
    • A thoughtful debrief after each date
    Inner Circle
    $149 /mo
    + $749 one-time · ~$2,540 first year
    Concierge and unhurried — pre-date calls and fully done-for-you evenings.
    Everything in Close Friends, plus
    • Scheduled calls, incl. a pre-date pep talk
    • Fully done-for-you dates

    The whole market, in three brackets

    A matchmaker's service, a dating app's price

    There are really only three ways to date. Apps make you do the work. Professional matchmakers do it for you — for thousands. We're the bridge: the professional's model at the app's price.

    Do-it-yourself apps$15–$80 / mo
    You do all the searching, screening, and vetting. Unlimited strangers, zero help. (Compared plan-by-plan above.)
    Friend of a FriendYou are here$59–$149 / mo
    A real matchmaker does the work — hand-picked, background-checked, local — at a price that sits right next to the apps.
    Professional matchmakers — Ohio area$595 – $25,000+
    The same done-for-you model we offer — a human vets and hand-picks — but almost always one big fee paid up front (a set of dates, or a retained search), not a monthly. VIDA Select is the rare month-to-month one.
    Fix Me Up! · Boardman, OH (local)one-time "lifetime" fee*
    Lunch Date · Cleveland (entry)~$595 one-time
    VIDA Select · serves Ohio$1,595 / mo
    It's Just Lunch · Cleveland & Columbus~$2,500–$3,500 package
    Master Matchmakers · serves Ohiofrom $2,500 one-time
    LUMA · luxuryfrom $15,000 package
    Selective Search · Cleveland & Columbus$25,000+ retained search

    Closer to home: the Valley's only local matchmaker — Fix Me Up! in Boardman — charges one "lifetime" fee up front, so they're paid whether or not you ever meet someone. We're month-to-month and pause the moment you're dating: the only way we keep earning is by actually introducing you to people.

    Every service in that third bracket does exactly what we do — a real person vets and hand-picks. Friend of a Friend is the only one that does it at the price of a dating app.

    For scale: your entire first year with us runs about $850 (Friend) to $2,540 (Inner Circle) — less than most of these charge just once.

    *Fix Me Up! doesn't publish a price and markets on affordability (one-time lifetime membership). Matchmaker pricing is often quote-based; figures are public rates and third-party reviews (VIDA Select, It's Just Lunch, Selective Search, Photofeeler), 2025–26.

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    Friend of a Friend · Youngstown, OH. App prices are representative 2026 rates and change with promotions; membership prices are our published rates.